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Love When You’re Ready!

Now that the temperature has dropped about 30 degrees from the summer and we have set our clocks back one hour it is safe to say that we have OFFICIALLY entered into the “Cuffing Season”. For those who don’t know what cuffing season is, it is the time of year where everyone realizes that it too cold to be outside bar hopping looking for new hook up buddies. At this time people realize I should find the cutest male/female within a 25 minute radius of my house so I can have someone to consistently Netflix and Chill with. For many people under the age of 35 this is the closest thing to an exclusive relationship they will have all year… or at least until the summer comes back around.

As tempting as it may be to go out and lock a cuffing buddy down I encourage you to think twice before you do so. My father once told me that a person should love when they are ready, not when they are lonely. Most of us will get lonely and rush into situationships because everyone else is doing it. Be your own person. I understand that it may be sexually frustrating, and it may make you feel like the odd one in your group of friends but it’s worth it to wait for your right partner then be detoured by your “right now” buddy!

I actually get most of my new clients in the Spring time because one partner runs for freedom after the cuffing season has passed, while the other partner is stuck in their feelings because they actually got emotionally attached to that person, expecting it to last. Just remember that everyone doesn’t deserve your heart, your love or your emotions. Be wise who you give it to. You don’t have to cheapen yourself because everyone else is. Don’t be scared to be rare. If everyone can have something it’s not as valuable. There will never be a lack of attractive men or women, so love when you are ready and not when you are lonely.

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